Our Rock Star Uncle!

Our very own Uncle Kevin, Jeff's baby brother, is on his way to stardom(well, he already is actually a star to us!)but he has made his way out in L.A and started with a band called The Marcus Eaton Trio,(you can view him and the trio online at:www.marcuseaton.com)
He is the drummer and so amazing! We got to see him play live last weekend, he is currently touring the east coast, and is opening up for Alanis Morriset in New York in a few months!
Charlie had so much fun hanging out with his Uncle and the band all weekend, they are all amazing musicians and guys!
We love you Uncle Kevin and are so very, very proud of you, your hard work and determination!

Art from the Heart, by Charlie

Above is a picture that my sweet Charlie boy drew for me last night..and here is why...
For the MOST part, getting pregnant and having a baby is easy-I've been there, done that. And in 3 years, stood by and watched many family members and friends do just that.
But having a baby born into your heart and soul two and a half years ago and having to wait an endless amount of time to get to her, that's NOT easy.
This journey to Sophie has not been easy at all, nothing about it, and most obviously, this wait. It has tested my patience tremendously and brought me to my knees in tears, many more times than I care to admitt.
And Charlie too, at only the sweet age of five, is tired of waiting for his baby sister to come home. But this picture he made me is an example of the love and suppport and encouragement he reminds me to have, to trust God and have faith that Sophie Ruth will one day come home.(Imagine that from a five year old, but it's true!)
This picture was made for me out of love and hope from Charlie, it's a picture of a family of four, OUR FAMILY OF FOUR, drawn by him, and when he gave it to me last night, he said,"mommy, don't be sad, Sophie is going to be in our family and then there will be the four of us!" And in that moment, my five year old son gave me more hope, and support and encouragement than I could have gotten anywhere else....and we all know where he got it from...God is so Good!!
Charlie mommy loves you more than you'll ever know, to the sun, and the moon, and the stars and back and back again...
And Sophie, we ALL love you already very much...to the sun and the stars and the moon (and China!)and back and back too!!
Here's to our soon to be future family of 4!!!

Fun Filled Visit with Poppie and Grandy...and matches for September through Feb 15 2006!!!

Well, as you can see, Charlie is turning out to be as much of a roller coaster dare devil as his Poppie! He had the time of his life riding over and over again at the new "kiddie ride park" they added onto our zoo! Grandy braved the flying swings with us, but probably wont ever go on the roller coasters again!
And as much as I'd hoped to report a bigger match month at this point in the wait...I guess six days is better than five....They matched families with their babies logged in through Feb 15 2006...exactly 4 weeks to go until they get to us March 15th families....I continue to pray this wait will speed up based on the amount of families they match in the next coming months...No one knows if they will or wont', all we can do is hold on and pray...and have faith.
Only 27 days of people left ahead of us Sophie....WE ARE STILL COMING SOON!!

A Sneak Peak at Pink...and why God knew I needed a girl!

Well, Sophie, your nursery has begun!! The painting is almost done..your dresser is in the process of being painted and distressed(I'm almost done with it)now I just need to find some pink crystal knobs to finish it off! I am having soooo much fun being surrounded in so much pink! Charlie wanted to help of course, so he came up with the idea of painting a special message and picture for you underneath the pink of your walls! Now you will have "secrets" within the walls of your room!

Standing in the middle of your almost finished nursery overwhelms me with emotions....I stand in there and think....within these pink walls I will teach you to love and be loved...within these pink walls I will hold, rock and cradle you to sleep each night....within these pink walls I will once again read Goodnight Moon over and over again....within these pink walls you will feel so much love and joy from me, your daddy, and big brother...within these pink walls you will soon be with us, your forever family!!!!

And on another note...I am slowly, BUT surely losing my little mama's boy(those of you will appreciate this that know us well)..my sweet obediant little Charlie boy is turning out more and more like his daddy(and uncles!)as each day passes!!! We are slowly leaving the world of stuffed animals and disney cars and arts and crafts and lunging into the world of race car drivers, dare devils with scooters and two wheelers, and beebee guns!!! Above is Charlie and daddy using Charlies new Red Rider Beebee gun bought for him by none other than...Uncle Dougie of course!!
So my sweet Sophia Ruth, you can not get here quick enough!! I'm being out numbered by boys!! More pic's to come when the nurserys all done!! Love Mommy xoxo

Only 33 days left in line ahead!!!!!!

Well, they've matched families with their babies logged in through Feb 9 2006...and as a reminder...we are March 15 2006....ONLY 33 MORE DAYS OF PEOPLE TO GET THROUGH!!!!!
There is also a "rumor"(which as we all know, a rumor's a rumor for a reason...)BUT...I am staying positive and praying this is true...the rumor says that at the end of this month of Sept, the next batch of referrals is supposed to be BIG according to the Chinese Gov't.! So in 3 or 4 weeks they could be close to the end of the month of Feb 06 and approaching our month of March 06!!!
Please pray along with us and think positive thoughts that we are only 2/3 months away from seeing our baby girls face!!! (I'm focusing on November!!!!)
We also have been praying hard that right now, since we are 99.9% sure our Sophie Ruth IS indeed born of this world, we are praying she is being WELL taken care of and someone special, a world away, is going above and beyond Sophie's basic needs and caring lovingly for her....

I am finally starting on your nursery Sophie....I've changed my mind on the color of the walls over and over, but I'm heading to Lowes to make a final decision on Monday and then I'll be painting away!!
All your bottles, cups, pacifer's and such, have been washed and put away in the cupboards...which is soooo exciting to open up the cabinets and see everything lined up and ready for you my sweet girl! Now I've got your room to finish up and then the pre-packing begins!!!!
It wont' be long now....we are thinking of you and loving you with all our hearts every day Sophie girl!!!
Love, Mommy xoxo

A camping we will go!!

Well, we took an end of summer trip to the cabins to camp! Thankgoodness for camping in CABINS, or should I say, thankgoodness for Jeffs sake,(he would have wanted to strangle me!) that we had cabins and not tents! I sware I must have blocked out all those years of "roughing it" in tents as a child and teen, I can't imagine sleeping out in the woods in a tent where bugs, creatures, darkness, and the smell of dirt surrounding us...Oh I can't imagine!!!
So anyway, our sweet Charlie boy is a boys-boy at heart and looooved every min of our weekend adventure, esp. canoeing, where I again have no idea why I'd ever done this in the past and thought it to be fun...(again, Jeff probably wanted to strangle me during the ride down the river!!!)
So my dear Sophie girl to be, I pray you are every bit of a girls-girl like your mommy, b/c next summer I've already decided we can drop daddy and Charlie off to go on their camping adventures and we can continue heading south to shop!!!
And, no rumors out yet as to the next batch of babies to be.....But I do find it exciting to note that there are only 41 days of people in line ahead of us!!!! Slowly but Surely we ARE getting closer to you my baby girl to be!!!
Love Mommy xoxo

We Survived the first day of Kindergarten!!!

Wow I can't believe we have a kindergartener!! Our Charlie boy did awesome yesterday on his very first LOOOONG 7 hour day all by himself!! I don't think, outside of the few getaway weekends I've been on, that in five years I've ever been away from Charlie that long. He hasn't even really eaten lunch w/o me in all his five years either, so yesterday was a pretty big milestone for all of us!!
Daddy took the day off so we could walk(while Charlie rode his bike)to school. We were so proud of him as he walked right into his classroom, so excited and happy, gave us one hug each and that was it!! We went up to check on him at lunch time, and although he seemed tired, he was okay and said still happy to be there.
And as we picked him up that afternoon, the first thing he said as he got back on his bike to ride home was, " Mommy I loooooooved school!!!!" And that just sums it all up!!!
And Sophie Ruth I pray with all my heart that you and I will be walking up to get your big kindergartener brother very, very soon!!!

Time Flys, and times a changin!!!

Time sure does fly...these are pictures of my last week with all my crew of precious little ones...(who arent' so little any more!)
We started this journey with four...added one more last summer and now two are moving on...I can't believe these kiddos were only 8weeks/2,one year olds and 2, two year olds....and now they are three years old, 2 four year olds, my five year old, a six year old, and the latest addition is one years old....
Saying goodbye to this group will take a lot of adjusting too...
Everything changes, nothing stays the same, that sure is true!
I will cherish these past 3 1/2 years I had with them all together!

End of Summer Trip up North to see my Uncles/Aunt/Cousins..etc.....!

Bye, Bye training wheels!

Summer Fair 2008

Well once again we've survived the famous summer fair in all it's heat and glory!! We had a blast aside from having to peel our clothes off when home from being soooooo hot!!! Charlie actually pointed out a lot of kiddie rides that he said he will be able to take his Sophie on next summer!!!
We FINALLY (after 2 1/2 years) heard more of a definet time frame from our adoption agency. After having to go a 3rd time this past Saturday to be fingerprinted at our immigration office, our agency said it WILL be the last time, b/c they know we will have our baby girl home by THIS Christmas if not, worst case, January!!!! Although I am a bit numb to feeling excited yet at this point, I will admit my stomach did a little dance at the thought that we probably will have Sophie Ruth in our arms in the next 4 or 5 months.....Our agency is known for being very tight lipped and conservative with giving out ANY info as to when they think it will be our turn, so for them to have actually given a statement that it will be by this X-mas, tells us that they must know something very good!!!
So, as my sweet Charlie boy often says, "Good things come to those who wait"!
Sophie Ruth we are getting ready!!!!!!
Love mommy xoxo

Vacation Bible School another year here and gone!

Well, once again for the third year in a row we've completed the awesome VBS event at our church! It was great as always, and such a reminder of how privledged we are to be able to attend and worship at such an amazing church! Their childrens program is outstanding, Charlie, you and Sophie are so lucky! Jeff and I had so much fun teaching it again! This years theme was the Power Lab- The wonder working power of the love of Jesus Christ! Check out the pic's below for more VBS fun!
Sophie, one day soon you too will get to learn how much our Lord loves and adores you too!!!
Love Mommy xoxo

Vacation Bible School 2008!

Poem for Sophie -by her mommy, Amy!

When the warm breeze blows we'll see your precious face

When the sun shines bright we'll see your precious face

Thru God's Grace and our neverending faith we'll soon see your precious face... -Amy

Dear Sophie Ruth, I was looking back through a journal I've been writing to you in for the past two years, and this past February I had written this poem to you. As I read it, I realize that 6 months ago I was hoping we'd be coming to get you in this summer or fall, hence the "warm breezes and sun shining", and now I sit here in July and we are not that much closer to you....
SO...the sun and warm breezes may not be here on earth when we come get you this winter, but they WILL be in mommy, daddy's and Charlie's(poppie, grandy and gramma Jean's too) hearts for sure that moment they place you in our arms!
Sophia Ruth- not a day has gone by since March 15 2006 that you have not been heavy on my mind and in my heart. Before you were even conceived I've dreamed of you and prayed for you my daughter to be. This wait has been the longest, hardest trial I've ever endured in my life, BUT I KNOW our Lord has a plan, and ultimately, through all of this, I know 100% YOU will be our REWARD at the end of all this, and for that soul reason alone dear Sophie, this has been worth every minute, every tear dropped, every sigh of frustration, ALL OF IT, and I would do it all over again!!!! We are so lucky that the Lord chose us to endure this journey to you, and I thank him every day!
The Chinese Gov has matched families with babies right up to February of 2006....at the end of this month they should be a few days into February...we ARE getting closer...it' s only a matter of a few months now!
Love, Mommy xoxo

Water/swim classes+golf= LOVING SUMMER!